[This talk contains graphic language and descriptions of sexual violence] [Viewer discretion is advised]
[Ovaj govor sadrži slikovit jezik i opise seksualnog nasilja] [Savetuje se diskrecija gledalaca]
"Ashley Judd, stupid fucking slut.
"Ešli Džad je jebeno glupa drolja."
"You can't sue someone for calling them a cunt."
"Ne možeš tužiti nekoga jer si ga nazvao pizdom."
"If you can't handle the Internet, fuck off, whore."
"Ako ne možeš da izađeš na kraj s internetom, odjebi, kurvo."
"I wish Ashley Judd would die a horrible death. She is the absolute worst."
"Volio bih da Ešli Džad umre užasnom smrću. Ona je apsolutno najgora."
"Ashley Judd, you're the reason women shouldn't vote."
"Ešli Džad, ti si razlog zašto žene ne bi trebalo da glasaju."
"'Twisted' is such a bad movie, I don't even want to rape it."
"'Twisted' je toliko loš film da ga ni silovao ne bih."
"Whatever you do, don't tell Ashley Judd. She'll die alone with a dried out vagina."
"Radite šta hoćete, ali ne govorite Ešli Džad. Umreće sama sasušene vagine."
"If I had to fuck an older woman, oh my God, I would fuck the shit out of Ashley Judd, that bitch is hot af. The unforgivable shit I would do to her."
"Ako bih morao da jebem stariju ženu, o, moj gospode, izjebao bih i boga u Ešli Džad, ta kučka je jebeno dobra. Radio bih joj neoprostive stvari."
Online misogyny is a global gender rights tragedy, and it is imperative that it ends.
Mizoginija je globalna tragedija rodnih prava i imperativ je da se okonča.
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Girls' and women's voices, and our allies' voices are constrained in ways that are personally, economically, professionally and politically damaging. And when we curb abuse, we will expand freedom.
Glasovi devojaka i žena i glasovi naših saveznika su obuzdani na načine koji su lično, ekonomski, profesionalno i politički štetni. A kada obuzdamo nasilje, proširićemo slobodu.
I am a Kentucky basketball fan, so on a fine March day last year, I was doing one of the things I do best: I was cheering for my Wildcats. The daffodils were blooming, but the referees were not blowing the whistle when I was telling them to.
Ja sam fan košarkaša iz Kentakija, pa lepog martovskog dana prošle godine, radila sam nešto što najbolje radim: Navijala sam za moje Divlje mačke. Narcisi su cvetali, ali sudije nisu duvale u pištaljku kad sam im naređivala.
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Funny, they're very friendly to me before the opening tip, but they really ignore me during the game.
Zanimljivo, bili su fini prema meni pre prvog dodavanja, ali su me zaista ignorisali tokom meča.
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Three of my players were bleeding, so I did the next best thing ... I tweeted.
Tri moja igrača su krvarila, pa sam uradila sledeće što sam znala... objavila sam tvit.
[@ArkRazorback dirty play can kiss my team's free throw making a -- @KySportsRadio @marchmadness @espn Bloodied 3 players so far.]
[@ArkRazorback prljava igra može da poljubi slobodne udarce moje ekipe - @KySportsRadio @marchmadness @espn do sad su tri igrača krvava.]
It is routine for me to be treated in the ways I've already described to you. It happens to me every single day on social media platforms such as Twitter and Facebook. Since I joined Twitter in 2011, misogyny and misogynists have amply demonstrated they will dog my every step. My spirituality, my faith, being a hillbilly -- I can say that, you can't -- all of it is fair game.
Rutinski je da me tretiraju kako sam vam već objasnila. Dešava mi se svakog dana na platformama društvenih mreža, poput Tvitera i Fejsbuka. Otkad sam otvorila Tviter nalog 2011, mizoginija i mizoginisti su jasno pokazali da će pratiti svaki moj korak. Moju duhovnost, moju veru, to što sam brđanka - ja to mogu da kažem, vi ne - sve je to fer igra.
And I have responded to this with various strategies. I've tried engaging people. This one guy was sending me hypersexual, nasty stuff, and there was a girl in his avatar. I wrote him back and said ... "Is that your daughter? I feel a lot of fear that you may think about and talk to women this way." And he surprised me by saying, "You know what? You're right. I apologize." Sometimes people want to be held accountable. This one guy was musing to I don't know who that maybe I was the definition of a cunt. I was married to a Scot for 14 years, so I said, "Cunt means many different things in different countries --
A ja sam odgovarala na ovo raznim strategijama. Pokušala sam da pokrenem ljude. Jedan momak mi je slao hiperseksualne, gadne stvari, a na avataru mu je bila devojka. Odgovorila sam mu rečima... "Je li ti to kćerka? Veoma strahujem što razmišljaš i govoriš s ženama na taj način." I iznenadio me je rekavši: "Znaš šta? U pravu si. Izvinjavam se." Ponekad ljudi žele da ih pozovete na odgovornost. Jedan momak je diskutovao s pojma nemam kim o to me da sam možda definicija pizde. Bila sam udata za Škota 14 godina, pa sam rekla: "Pizda znači štošta u različitim državama -
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but I'm pretty sure you epitomize the global standard of a dick."
ali sam prilično sigurna da si ti globalno ovaploćenje šupka."
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I've tried to rise above it, I've tried to get in the trenches, but mostly I would scroll through these social media platforms with one eye partially closed, trying not to see it, but you can't make a cucumber out of a pickle. What is seen goes in. It's traumatic. And I was always secretly hoping in some part of me that what was being said to me and about me wasn't ... true. Because even I, an avowed, self-declared feminist, who worships at the altar of Gloria --
Pokušala sam da se izdignem, pokušala sam da se ušančim, ali sam uglavnom prelistavala platforme društvenih mreža jednim okom delimično zatvorenim, pokušavajući da to ne vidim, ali ne možeš od muve napraviti medveda. Ono što vidite, upijate. Traumatično je. I uvek sam se potajno nadala u nekom delu sebe da ono što govore meni i o meni nije... istina. Jer čak i ja, zakleta, samoproklamovana feministkinja, koja se moli na oltaru Glorije -
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internalize the patriarchy. This is really critical. Patriarchy is not boys and men. It is a system in which we all participate, including me.
internalizujem patrijarhat. Ovo je zaista ključno. Patrijarhat nisu momci i muškarci. To je sistem u kome svi učestvujemo, uključujući i mene.
On that particular day, for some reason, that particular tweet after the basketball game triggered something called a "cyber mob." This vitriolic, global outpouring of the most heinous hate speech: death threats, rape threats. And don't you know, when I was sitting at home alone in my nightgown, I got a phone call, and it was my beloved former husband, and he said on a voice mail, "Loved one ... what is happening to you is not OK."
Baš tog dana, iz nekog razloga, baš taj tvit nakon košarkaške utakmice je pokrenuo nešto što se naziva "sajber ruljom". Taj zajedljivi, globalni izliv najodvratnijeg govora mržnje: pretnje smrću, pretnje silovanjem. I nećete verovati, dok sam sedila sama kod kuće u spavaćici, primila sam telefonski poziv i bio je to moj dragi bivši muž i rekao je u govornoj pošti: "Draga... ono što ti se dešava nije u redu."
And there was something about him taking a stand for me that night ... that allowed me to take a stand for myself. And I started to write. I started to write about sharing the fact that I'm a survivor of all forms of sexual abuse, including three rapes. And the hate speech I get in response to that -- these are just some of the comments posted to news outlets. Being told I'm a "snitch" is really fun.
I nešto u vezi s tim da se on te noći zauzeo za mene... omogućilo mi je da se zauzmem za sebe. Pa sam počela da pišem. Počela sam da pišem, deleći činjenicu da sam preživela sve oblike seksualnog zlostavljanja, uključujući tri silovanja. A govor mržnje koji je stigao kao odgovor na to - ovo su samo neki od komentara poslatih na novinskim portalima. Veoma je smešno što su me nazvali "cinkarošem".
[Jay: She enjoyed every second of it!!!!!]
[Džej: Uživala je u svakom sekundu!!!!!]
Audience: Oh, Lord Jesus.
Publika: Oh, gospode.
Ashley Judd: Thank you, Jesus. May your grace and mercy shine.
Ešli Džad: Hvala Isusu. Presvetli neka su tvoja slava i milost.
So, I wrote this feminist op-ed, it is entitled, "Forget Your Team: It Is Your Online Gender Violence Toward Girls And Women That Can Kiss My Righteous Ass."
Pa sam napisala feministički članak, naslovljen: "Zaboravite vašu ekipu: Vaše rodno nasilje na internetu prema devojkama i ženama može da me poljubi u pravedno dupe."
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And I did that alone, and I published it alone, because my chief advisor said, "Please don't, the rain of retaliatory garbage that is inevitable -- I fear for you." But I trust girls and I trust women, and I trust our allies. It was published, it went viral, it proves that every single day online misogyny is a phenomenon endured by us all, all over the world, and when it is intersectional, it is worse. Sexual orientation, gender identity, race, ethnicity, religion -- you name it, it amplifies the violence endured by girls and women, and for our younger girls, it is worse.
Sama sam to uradila i sama sam to objavila jer mi je glavni savetnik rekao: "Molim te, nemoj, pljusak osvetničkog smeća je neizbežan - strahujem za tebe." Ali ja verujem devojkama i ženama, i verujem našim saveznicima. Objavljeno je, masovno čitano, to pokazuje da svakog dana mizoginija je pojava koju svi proživljavamo širom sveta, a kada je na preseku još je gore. Seksualna orijentacija, rodni identitet, rasa, narodnost, religija - šta god hoćete, naglašavaju nasilje koje trpe devojke i žene, a našim devojčicama je još gore.
It's clearly traumatizing. Our mental health, our emotional well-being are so gravely affected because the threat of violence is experienced neurobiologically as violence. The cortisol shoots up, the limbic system gets fired, we lose productivity at work.
Očito je traumatično. Naše mentalno zdravlje, naša emotivna dobrobit su ozbiljno ugroženi jer se pretnja nasiljem neurobiološki doživljava kao nasilje. Kortizol pohrli, pali se limbički sistem, gubimo produktivnost na poslu.
And let's talk about work. Our ability to work is constrained. Online searches of women applying for jobs reveal nude pictures of them, false allegations they have STDs, their addresses indicating that they are available for sex with real examples of people showing up at this house for said sex.
Razgovarajmo o poslu. Naša mogućnost za rad je ograničena. Onlajn pretrage žena koje se prijavljuju na posao otkrivaju njihove golišave slike, lažne optužbe da imaju polne bolesti, njihove adrese nagoveštavaju da su dostupne za seks, sa stvarnim primerima ljudi koji su se pojavili u određenoj kući radi ugovorenog seksa.
Our ability to go to school is impaired. 96 percent of all postings of sexual images of our young people ... girls. Our girls. Our boys are two to three times more likely -- nonconsensually -- to share images.
Naša mogućnost školovanja je umanjena. 96 procenata svih objava seksualnih slika mladih ljudi... su devojke. Naše devojke. Naši momci imaju dva do tri puta više šanse - bez pristanka - da dele slike.
And I want to say a word about revenge porn. Part of what came out of this tweet was my getting connected with allies and other activists who are fighting for a safe and free internet. We started something called the Speech Project; curbing abuse, expanding freedom. And that website provides a critical forum, because there is no global, legal thing to help us figure this out. But we do provide on that website a standardized list of definitions, because it's hard to attack a behavior in the right way if we're not all sharing a definition of what that behavior is. And I learned that revenge porn is often dangerously misapplied. It is the nonconsensual sharing of an image used tactically to shame and humiliate a girl or woman that attempts to pornography us. Our natural sexuality is -- I don't know about yours -- pretty gorgeous and wonderful. And my expressing it does not pornography make.
I želim da kažem nešto o osvetničkom porniću. Ovaj tvit je uzrokovao da se povežem sa saveznicima i drugim aktivistima koji se bore za bezbedan i slobodan internet. Pokrenuli smo nešto što se zove Speach Project; obuzdavamo zlostavljanje, širimo slobodu. A taj vebsajt pruža ključni forum jer ne postoji globalna, legalna stvar koja bi nam pomogla da ovo rešimo. Ali pružamo na tom vebsajtu standardizovanu listu definicija jer je teško napadati ponašanje na pravi način, ako svi ne delimo definiciju tog ponašanja. I saznala sam da je osvetnički pornić često opasno zloupotrebljen. To je nesaglasno deljenje slike, koje se taktički koristi da se postidi i ponizi devojka ili žena, s ciljem da nas pornografišu. Naša prirodna seksualnost je - Ne znam za vašu - prilično božanstvena i divna. I moje ispoljavanje iste nije pornografski čin.
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So, I have all these resources that I'm keenly aware so many people in the world do not. I was able to start the Speech Project with colleagues. I can often get a social media company's attention. I have a wonderful visit to Facebook HQ coming up. Hasn't helped the idiotic reporting standards yet ... I actually pay someone to scrub my social media feeds, attempting to spare my brain the daily iterations of the trauma of hate speech. And guess what? I get hate speech for that. "Oh, you live in an echo chamber." Well, guess what? Having someone post a photograph of me with my mouth open saying they "can't wait to cum on my face," I have a right to set that boundary.
Dakle, imam sve te resurse za koje sam svesna da mnogi ljudi u svetu nemaju. Bila sam u mogućnosti da pokrenem Speach Project s kolegama. Često mogu da privučem pažnju udruženja društvenih mreža. Sledi mi divna poseta glavnom štabu Fejsbuka. Još uvek nije pomoglo kod idiotskih standarda izveštavanja... Zapravo plaćam nekoga da mi čisti stranice na društvenim mrežama, sa ciljem da poštedim um svakodnevnog ponavljanja traume govora mržnje. I znate šta? I to izaziva govor mržnje. "Oh, živiš u eho komori." Pa, znate šta? Kad neko objavi moju fotografiju sa otvorenim ustima uz reči da "jedva čekaju da mi svrše u lice", imam pravo da postavim tu granicu.
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And this distinction between virtual and real is specious because guess what -- that actually happened to me once when I was a child, and so that tweet brought up that trauma, and I had to do work on that.
A ta razlika između virtuelnog i stvarnog je varljiva jer znate šta - to mi se zaista desilo jednom kad sam bila dete, pa je taj tvit vratio traumu i ja sam morala da se bavim time.
But you know what we do? We take all of this hate speech, and we disaggregate it, and we code it, and we give that data so that we understand the intersectionality of it: when I get porn, when it's about political affiliation, when it's about age, when it's about all of it. We're going to win this fight.
Znate šta mi radimo? Uzimamo sav taj govor mržnje, razvrstavamo ga, kodiramo ga i delimo te podatke kako bismo razumeli ukrštanja iza toga: kad dobijem pornić, kad se radi o političkoj sklonosti, kad se radi o starosti, kad se radi o svemu tome. Pobedićemo u ovoj borbi.
There are a lot of solutions -- thank goodness. I'm going to offer just a few, and of course I challenge you to create and contribute your own. Number one: we have to start with digital media literacy, and clearly it must have a gendered lens. Kids, schools, caregivers, parents: it's essential. Two ... shall we talk about our friends in tech? Said with dignity and respect, the sexism in your workplaces must end.
Ima mnogo rešenja - hvala bogu. Ponudiću nekoliko, i, naravno, izazivam vas da date i doprinosete svojim rešenjima. Pod jedan: moramo da započnemo digitalnom medijskom pismenošću, i očito ona mora da ima rodnu perspektivu. Deca, škole, negovatelji, roditelji: ovo je ključno. Dva... da spomenemo prijatelje u tehnologiji? Recite dostojanstveno i s poštovanjem, seksizam na vašem radnom mestu mora da se okonča.
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EDGE, the global standard for gender equality, is the minimum standard. And guess what, Silicon Valley? If L'Oréal in India, in the Philippines, in Brazil and in Russia can do it, you can, too. Enough excuses. Only when women have critical mass in every department at your companies, including building platforms from the ground up, will the conversations about priorities and solutions change.
EDGE, globalni standard za rodnu ravnopravnost je minimalni standard. I pogodite šta, Silicijumska dolina? Ako Loreal u Indiji, u Filipinima, u Brazilu i u Rusiji to može, možete i vi. Dosta je bilo izgovora. Tek kad žene budu kritična masa u svakom odseku u vašim firmama, uključujući izgradnju platformi od samog starta, tek tad će se razgovor o prioritetima i rešenjima promeniti.
And more love for my friends in tech: profiteering off misogyny in video games must end. I'm so tired of hearing you talk to me at cocktail parties -- like you did a couple weeks ago in Aspen -- about how deplorable #Gamergate was, when you're still making billions of dollars off games that maim and dump women for sport. Basta! -- as the Italians would say. Enough.
I više ljubavi od naših prijatelja tehničara: profitiranje na mizoginiji u video igrama mora da prestane. Muka mi je da vas slušam kako mi govorite na koktelima - kao što ste pre nekoliko sedmica u Aspenu - o tome kako je jadan bio #Gamergate, dok i dalje zarađujete milijarde dolara na igrama koje sakate i odbacuju žene iz zabave. Basta! - što bi Italijani rekli. Dosta.
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Our friends in law enforcement have much to do, because we've seen that online violence is an extension of in-person violence. In our country, more girls and women have been murdered by their intimate partners than died on 9/11 and have died since in Afghanistan and Iraq combined. And it's not cool to say that, but it is true. We care so much geopolitically about what men are doing over there to women over there ... In 2015, 72,828 women used intimate partner violence services in this country. That is not counting the girls and women and boys who needed them. Law enforcement must be empowered with up-to-date internet technology, the devices and an understanding of these platforms -- how they work. The police wanted to be helpful when Amanda Hess called about the death threat she was getting on Twitter, but they couldn't really when they said, "What's Twitter?"
Na našim prijateljima u policiji je veliki posao jer smo videli da je nasilje na internetu nastavak nasilja uživo. U našoj državi, više je devojaka i žena ubijeno od strane njihovih intimnih partnera nego što je umrlo 9. 11. i nego što je otad umrlo i u Afganistanu i u Iraku. I nije to kul reći, ali je tako. Toliko smo geopolitički zabrinuti zbog toga šta muškarci tamo rade ženama tamo... Godine 2015. 72 828 žena u ovoj zemlji je koristilo usluge za intimno partnersko nasilje. A tu se ne ubrajaju devojke, žene i dečaci kojima su bile potrebne. Policija mora da bude osnažena savremenom internet tehnologijom, uređajima i razumevanjem ovih platformi - kako funkcionišu. Policija je želela da pomogne kad je Amanda Hes nazvala zbog pretnji smrću koje je dobijala na Tviteru, ali zaista nisu mogli da pomgnu jer su pitali: "Šta je Tviter?"
Our legislators must write and pass astute legislation that reflects today's technology and our notions of free and hate speech. In New York recently, the law could not be applied to a perpetrator because the crimes must have been committed -- even if it was anonymous -- they must have been committed by telephone, in mail, by telegraph --
Naši zakonodavci moraju da napišu i izglasaju mudre zakone koji su odraz savremene tehnologije i naših shvatanja slobodnog i govora mržnje. Nedavno u Njujorku zakon nije mogao da se primeni na počinioca jer zločini moraju biti počinjeni - čak iako su anonimni - moraju biti počinjeni preko telefona, poštom, preko telegrafa -
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The language must be technologically neutral.
Jezik mora da bude tehnološki neutralan.
So apparently, I've got a pretty bold voice. So, let's talk about our friends ... white men. You have a role to play and a choice to make. You can do something, or you can do nothing. We're cool in this room, but when this goes out, everyone will say, "Oh my God, she's a reverse racist." That quote was said by a white man, Robert Moritz, chairperson, PricewaterhouseCoopers, he asked me to include it in my talk.
Pa, očigledno da imam odvažan glas. Pa, razgovarajmo o našim prijateljima... belim muškarcima. Imate ulogu da odigrate i da napravite izbor. Možete da uradite nešto ili da ne uradite ništa. Super smo u ovoj prostoriji, ali kad se ovo objavi, svi će da kažu: "O bože, ona je obrnuti rasista." Taj citat je izgovorio belac, Robert Moric, predsedavajući u PricewaterhouseCoopers-u, tražio je da ga uključim u govor.
We need to grow support lines and help groups, so victims can help each other when their lives and finances have been derailed. We must as individuals disrupt gender violence as it is happening. 92 percent of young people 29 and under witness it. 72 percent of us have witnessed it. We must have the courage and urgency to practice stopping it as it is unfolding.
Moramo da razvijamo linije za podršku i grupe za pomoć, kako bi žrtve mogle da se međusobno pomažu kad njihove živote i finansije izbace iz koloseka. Moramo kao pojedinci da prekinemo rodno nasilje dok se dešava. 92 procenta mladih ljudi mlađih od 29 godina su svedoci toga. 72 procenta nas smo bili svedoci toga. Moramo da imamo hrabrosti i da hitno praktikujemo njegovo zaustavljanje dok se razvija.
And lastly, believe her. Believe her.
I na kraju, verujte joj. Verujte joj.
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This is fundamentally a problem of human interaction. And as I believe that human interaction is at the core of our healing, trauma not transformed will be trauma transferred.
Ovo je temeljni problem ljudskih međuodnosa. I pošto verujem da su međuljudski odnosi u srži našeg izlečenja, trauma koja nije preobražena će se preneti dalje.
Edith Wharton said, "The end is latent in the beginning," so we are going to end this talk replacing hate speech with love speech. Because I get lonely in this, but I know that we are allies. I recently learned about how gratitude and affirmations offset negative interactions. It takes five of those to offset one negative interaction, and gratitude in particular -- free, available globally any time, anywhere, to anyone in any dialect -- it fires the pregenual anterior cingulate, a watershed part of the brain that floods it with great, good stuff. So I'm going to say awesome stuff about myself. I would like for you to reflect it back to me. It might sound something like this --
Edit Varton je rekao: "Kraj je sakriven u početku", pa ćemo završiti ovaj govor menjajući govor mržnje govorom ljubavi. Zato što postanem usamljena u ovome, ali znam da smo saveznici. Nedavno sam naučila kako zahvalnost i potvrđivanje mogu da neutralizuju negativne interakcije. Potrebno je pet pozitivnih da neutrališe jednu negativnu interakciju, a naročito zahvalnost - besplatna, globalno dostupna bilo kad, bilo gde, svima u bilo kom dijalektu - ona aktivira prednji cingularni korteks, vododeljni deo mozga koji ga natapa sjajnim, dobrim stvarima. Pa ću da kažem izvanredne stvari o sebi. Želela bih da mi to ponovite. Zvučaće nekako ovako -
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I am a powerful and strong woman, and you would say, "Yes, you are."
Ja sam moćna i snažna žena, vi ćete reći: "Da, jesi."
Audience: Yes, you are.
Publika: Da, jesi.
Ashley Judd: My mama loves me.
Ešli Džad: Moja mama me voli.
A: Yes, she does.
P: Da, voli te.
AJ: I did a great job with my talk.
EDž: Govor mi je bio odličan.
A: Yes, you did.
P: Jeste, bio je.
AJ: I have a right to be here.
EDž: Imam pravo da budem ovde.
A: Yes, you do.
P: Da, imaš.
AJ: I'm really cute.
EDž: Stvarno sam slatka.
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A: Yes, you are.
P: Jesi.
AJ: God does good work.
EDž: Božja dela su dobra.
A: Yes, He does.
P: Jesu.
AJ: And I love you. Thank you so much for letting me be of service.
EDž: Volim vas. Mnogo hvala što ste mi dozvolili da budem od koristi.
Bless you.
Blagosloveni da ste.
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