[This talk contains graphic language and descriptions of sexual violence] [Viewer discretion is advised]
[To predavanje vključuje vulgarni jezik in opise spolnega nasilja.] [Prosimo za razumevanje.]
"Ashley Judd, stupid fucking slut.
"Ashley Judd, ti neumna zafukana cipa."
"You can't sue someone for calling them a cunt."
"Ne moreš tožiti ljudi, ker ti rečejo pizda."
"If you can't handle the Internet, fuck off, whore."
"Če ne preneseš interneta, odjebi, kurba."
"I wish Ashley Judd would die a horrible death. She is the absolute worst."
"Želim si, da bi Ashley Judd umrla strašne smrti. Ona je pa res najslabša."
"Ashley Judd, you're the reason women shouldn't vote."
"Ashley Judd, ti si razlog, zakaj ženske ne bi smele voliti."
"'Twisted' is such a bad movie, I don't even want to rape it."
"Pomračitev je tak zanič film, da je še posiliti nočem."
"Whatever you do, don't tell Ashley Judd. She'll die alone with a dried out vagina."
"Kar koli boš že naredil, ne povej Ashley Judd. Umrla bo sama z izsušeno vagino."
"If I had to fuck an older woman, oh my God, I would fuck the shit out of Ashley Judd, that bitch is hot af. The unforgivable shit I would do to her."
"Če bi že moral pofukati starejšo žensko, o moj Bog, bi prefukal Ashley Judd, ta prasica je zafukano vroča. Stvari, ki bi ji jih delal ..."
Online misogyny is a global gender rights tragedy, and it is imperative that it ends.
Spletna mizoginija je globalna tragedija za pravice spolov in nujno je, da se konča.
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Girls' and women's voices, and our allies' voices are constrained in ways that are personally, economically, professionally and politically damaging. And when we curb abuse, we will expand freedom.
Glasovi deklet in žena ter glasovi naši zaveznikov so omejeni na načine, ki so osebno, ekonomsko, profesionalno in politično škodljivi. In ko bomo zajezili zlorabo, bomo razširili svobodo.
I am a Kentucky basketball fan, so on a fine March day last year, I was doing one of the things I do best: I was cheering for my Wildcats. The daffodils were blooming, but the referees were not blowing the whistle when I was telling them to.
Sem navijačica kentuckyske košarke in lani sem nekega lepega dne v marcu počela eno od stvari, ki jo počnem najbolje: navijala sem za moje Divje mačke. Narcise so cvetele, a sodniki niso piskali, ko sem jim ukazala.
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Funny, they're very friendly to me before the opening tip, but they really ignore me during the game.
Smešno, zelo prijazni so bili do mene pred prvo žogo, med tekmo pa so me res ignorirali.
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Three of my players were bleeding, so I did the next best thing ... I tweeted.
Trije od mojih igralcev so krvaveli, zato sem naredila drugo najboljšo stvar: tvitala sem.
[@ArkRazorback dirty play can kiss my team's free throw making a -- @KySportsRadio @marchmadness @espn Bloodied 3 players so far.]
[@ArkRazorback, vaša umazana igra lahko poliže r.. moji ekipi. @KySportsRadio @marchmadness 3 okrvavljeni zaenkrat]
It is routine for me to be treated in the ways I've already described to you. It happens to me every single day on social media platforms such as Twitter and Facebook. Since I joined Twitter in 2011, misogyny and misogynists have amply demonstrated they will dog my every step. My spirituality, my faith, being a hillbilly -- I can say that, you can't -- all of it is fair game.
Zame je rutina, da se ljudje obnašajo do mene, kot sem prej opisala. To se mi zgodi prav vsak dan v družabnih medijih, kot sta npr. Twitter in Facebook. Odkar sem se pridružila Twitterju l. 2011, so mizoginija in mizoginisti obilno dokazali, da mi bodo nenehno za petami. Moja duhovnost, moja vera, to, da sem kmetavzarka - jaz to lahko rečem, vi pa ne - vse je fair play.
And I have responded to this with various strategies. I've tried engaging people. This one guy was sending me hypersexual, nasty stuff, and there was a girl in his avatar. I wrote him back and said ... "Is that your daughter? I feel a lot of fear that you may think about and talk to women this way." And he surprised me by saying, "You know what? You're right. I apologize." Sometimes people want to be held accountable. This one guy was musing to I don't know who that maybe I was the definition of a cunt. I was married to a Scot for 14 years, so I said, "Cunt means many different things in different countries --
Odgovarjala sem z raznimi strategijami. Poskusila sem govoriti z ljudmi. Nek tip mi je pošiljal hiperseksualne, ogabne vsebine, v svojem avatarju pa je imel dekle. Odpisala sem mu in rekla: "Je to vaša hčerka? Plaši me, da tako mislite in tako govorite z ženskami." Presenetil me je, ko je rekel: "Veste kaj, prav imate. Opravičujem se." Včasih ljudje želijo prevzeti odgovornost. Neki drugi tip je z nekom razglabljal, da bi lahko jaz bila definicija pizde. 14 let sem bila poročena s Škotom, zato sem rekla: "Pizda pomeni različne reči v različnih državah ...
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but I'm pretty sure you epitomize the global standard of a dick."
a skoraj sem prepričana, da vi utelešate globalni standard kurca."
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I've tried to rise above it, I've tried to get in the trenches, but mostly I would scroll through these social media platforms with one eye partially closed, trying not to see it, but you can't make a cucumber out of a pickle. What is seen goes in. It's traumatic. And I was always secretly hoping in some part of me that what was being said to me and about me wasn't ... true. Because even I, an avowed, self-declared feminist, who worships at the altar of Gloria --
Poskušala sem se dvigniti nad vse to, poskušala sem se boriti, večinoma pa samo preletim vse te družabne platforme z enim očesom in se trudim, da teh stvari ne bi videla, a nemogoče je stvari popolnoma odmisliti. Kar vidiš, ponotranjiš. In je travmatično. Vedno sem na skrivaj upala, da to, kar govorijo meni in o meni, ni res. Ker celo jaz, opredeljena, samooklicana feministka, ki časti pred oltarjem Glorije ...
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internalize the patriarchy. This is really critical. Patriarchy is not boys and men. It is a system in which we all participate, including me.
ponotranjim patriarhijo. To je resnično skrb vzbujajoče. Patriarhija niso fantje in možje. To je sistem, v katerem vsi sodelujemo, vključno z menoj.
On that particular day, for some reason, that particular tweet after the basketball game triggered something called a "cyber mob." This vitriolic, global outpouring of the most heinous hate speech: death threats, rape threats. And don't you know, when I was sitting at home alone in my nightgown, I got a phone call, and it was my beloved former husband, and he said on a voice mail, "Loved one ... what is happening to you is not OK."
Tistega dne je iz nekega razloga tisti določeni tvit po košarkarski tekmi sprožil nekaj, kar se imenuje 'spletna drhal'. Ta žolčni, globalni izliv najbolj odvratnega sovražnega govora: grožnje s smrtjo, grožnje s posilstvom. In veste kaj, ko sem sedela sama doma v spalni srajci, je zazvonil telefon in bil je moj dragi bivši mož in mi pustil sporočilo: "Ljubljena, kar se ti dogaja, ni v redu."
And there was something about him taking a stand for me that night ... that allowed me to take a stand for myself. And I started to write. I started to write about sharing the fact that I'm a survivor of all forms of sexual abuse, including three rapes. And the hate speech I get in response to that -- these are just some of the comments posted to news outlets. Being told I'm a "snitch" is really fun.
In nekaj je bilo na tem, kako se je tiste noči zavzel zame, kar mi je pomagalo, da sem se zavzela zase. In začela sem pisati. Začela sem pisati o dejstvu, da sem preživela vse oblike spolne zlorabe, vključno s tremi posilstvi. In sovražni govor, ki sem ga dobila v odgovor ... to je le nekaj komentarjev, poslanih novinarskim izpostavam. Da me imenujejo ovaduhinja, je resnično smešno.
[Jay: She enjoyed every second of it!!!!!]
[Jay: Vsako sekundo je uživala!!!!]
Audience: Oh, Lord Jesus.
O Jezus Kristus.
Ashley Judd: Thank you, Jesus. May your grace and mercy shine.
Hvala ti, Jezus, naj nas obsenči tvoja milost.
So, I wrote this feminist op-ed, it is entitled, "Forget Your Team: It Is Your Online Gender Violence Toward Girls And Women That Can Kiss My Righteous Ass."
Pisala sem torej neki feministični kolumni in pisanje naslovila: Pozabi na svoje moštvo. Tvoje spletno nasilje proti dekletom in ženskam naj poliže mojo pravično rit."
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And I did that alone, and I published it alone, because my chief advisor said, "Please don't, the rain of retaliatory garbage that is inevitable -- I fear for you." But I trust girls and I trust women, and I trust our allies. It was published, it went viral, it proves that every single day online misogyny is a phenomenon endured by us all, all over the world, and when it is intersectional, it is worse. Sexual orientation, gender identity, race, ethnicity, religion -- you name it, it amplifies the violence endured by girls and women, and for our younger girls, it is worse.
To sem naredila sama in tudi izdala sama, ker mi je moj glavni svetovalec rekel: "Prosim, ne, poplava povračilnega govna, ki je neizogibna ... bojim se zate." A zaupam dekletom in zaupam ženskam in zaupam našim zaveznikom. Objavljeno je bilo, se razširilo. To dokazuje, da je vsak dan spletna mizoginija pojav, ki ga vsi prenašamo po vsem svetu, in ko se prepleta, je še slabše. Spolna orientacija, spolna identiteta, rasa, etničnost, religija, kar hočete, razširja nasilje, ki ga prenašajo dekleta in ženske. Za naša mlada dekleta je še slabše.
It's clearly traumatizing. Our mental health, our emotional well-being are so gravely affected because the threat of violence is experienced neurobiologically as violence. The cortisol shoots up, the limbic system gets fired, we lose productivity at work.
Očitno je travmatično. Naše mentalno zdravje, naše emocionalno počutje sta tako močno napadena, ker grožnjo z nasiljem nevrobiološko izkusimo kot nasilje samo. Kortizol se noro dvigne, limbični sistem odpove, zgubimo delovno produktivnost.
And let's talk about work. Our ability to work is constrained. Online searches of women applying for jobs reveal nude pictures of them, false allegations they have STDs, their addresses indicating that they are available for sex with real examples of people showing up at this house for said sex.
Pa dajmo, spregovorimo o delu. Naša sposobnost za delo je ovirana. Spletno iskanje žensk, ki se prijavijo za službo, razkrije njihove gole fotografije, lažne navedbe, da imajo spolno prenosljive bolezni, njihovi naslovi kažejo, da so na voljo za seks, in to s pravimi primeri ljudi, ki se pokažejo pri njih doma za seks.
Our ability to go to school is impaired. 96 percent of all postings of sexual images of our young people ... girls. Our girls. Our boys are two to three times more likely -- nonconsensually -- to share images.
Naša možnost hoditi v šolo je ovirana. 96 odstotkov vseh objavljenih seksualnih fotografij naših mladih so dekleta. Naša dekleta. Naši fantje bodo dva do trikrat pogosteje - brez privolitve - delili fotografije.
And I want to say a word about revenge porn. Part of what came out of this tweet was my getting connected with allies and other activists who are fighting for a safe and free internet. We started something called the Speech Project; curbing abuse, expanding freedom. And that website provides a critical forum, because there is no global, legal thing to help us figure this out. But we do provide on that website a standardized list of definitions, because it's hard to attack a behavior in the right way if we're not all sharing a definition of what that behavior is. And I learned that revenge porn is often dangerously misapplied. It is the nonconsensual sharing of an image used tactically to shame and humiliate a girl or woman that attempts to pornography us. Our natural sexuality is -- I don't know about yours -- pretty gorgeous and wonderful. And my expressing it does not pornography make.
In rada bi spregovorila o maščevalni pornografiji. Del tega, kar je nastalo zaradi mojega tvita, je, da sem se povezala z zavezniki in drugimi aktivisti, ki se borijo za varen in svoboden internet. Začeli smo projekt Speech, s katerim brzdamo zlorabo in širimo svobodo. Ta spletna stran ponuja kritični forum, ker ne obstaja nobena globalna legalna stvar, ki bi nam pri tem pomagala. Na tej spletni strani pa ponujajo standardiziran seznam definicij, ker je težko napadati vedenje na pravi način, če ne delimo definicij, kaj sploh to vedenje je. Naučila sem se, da je maščevalna pornografija pogosto nevarno zlorabljena. Gre za nesporazumno deljenje fotografije z namenom taktično osramotiti in ponižati dekle ali žensko, kar nas poskuša spremeniti v pornografski objekt. Naša naravna seksualnost je - ne vem za vas - precej sijajna in čudovita. In moje izražanje seksualnosti ni pornografija.
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So, I have all these resources that I'm keenly aware so many people in the world do not. I was able to start the Speech Project with colleagues. I can often get a social media company's attention. I have a wonderful visit to Facebook HQ coming up. Hasn't helped the idiotic reporting standards yet ... I actually pay someone to scrub my social media feeds, attempting to spare my brain the daily iterations of the trauma of hate speech. And guess what? I get hate speech for that. "Oh, you live in an echo chamber." Well, guess what? Having someone post a photograph of me with my mouth open saying they "can't wait to cum on my face," I have a right to set that boundary.
Imam vse te vire, za katere se zavedam, da jih toliko ljudi na svetu nima. Projekt Speech sem lahko začela s svojimi kolegi. Deležna sem pozornosti podjetij družabnih omrežij. Pred mano je čudovit obisk v centrali Facebooka. A to še ni pomagalo idiotskim standardom prijavljanja ... Nekomu plačujem, da prečisti komentarje na mojih družabnih omrežjih in tako poskušam svojim možganom prihraniti vsakodnevno ponavljanje travme sovražnega govora. In veste kaj? Spet dobim sovražni govor. "O, ti živiš v vakuumu." Veste kaj? Ko nekdo objavi fotografijo mene z odprtimi usti in reče: "Komaj čakam, da mi pride po njenem obrazu, imam pravico postaviti meje.
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And this distinction between virtual and real is specious because guess what -- that actually happened to me once when I was a child, and so that tweet brought up that trauma, and I had to do work on that.
In ta razlika med virtualnim in realnim je varljiva, ker, veste kaj, to se mi je dejansko zgodilo, ko sem bila otrok, in zato je ta tvit zbudil travmo in morala sem delati na tem.
But you know what we do? We take all of this hate speech, and we disaggregate it, and we code it, and we give that data so that we understand the intersectionality of it: when I get porn, when it's about political affiliation, when it's about age, when it's about all of it. We're going to win this fight.
A veste, kaj naredimo? Vzamemo ves ta sovražni govor in ga izločimo in ga zakodiramo in damo te podatke, da razumemo njegovo vseprisotnost: ko dobim pornografijo, ko gre za politična afiliacijo, ko gre za našo starost, ko gre za vse nas. Zmagali bomo v tem boju.
There are a lot of solutions -- thank goodness. I'm going to offer just a few, and of course I challenge you to create and contribute your own. Number one: we have to start with digital media literacy, and clearly it must have a gendered lens. Kids, schools, caregivers, parents: it's essential. Two ... shall we talk about our friends in tech? Said with dignity and respect, the sexism in your workplaces must end.
Veliko rešitev obstaja, hvala Bogu. Samo nekaj jih bom ponudila in vas seveda izzvala, da ustvarite in prispevate svoje. Prvič: začeti moramo digitalno medijsko opismenjevati, in to skozi prizmo spolov. Otroke, šole, vzgojitelje, starše. Nujno je. Drugič: rečemo kako besedo o prijateljih v tehnologiji? To pravim z dostojanstvom in spoštovanjem, a seksizem na delovnem mestu se mora končati.
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EDGE, the global standard for gender equality, is the minimum standard. And guess what, Silicon Valley? If L'Oréal in India, in the Philippines, in Brazil and in Russia can do it, you can, too. Enough excuses. Only when women have critical mass in every department at your companies, including building platforms from the ground up, will the conversations about priorities and solutions change.
EDGE, globalni standard za enakost spolov, je minimalni standard. In veste kaj, Silicijeva dolina? Če lahko to stori L'Oreal v Indiji, na Filipinih, v Braziliji in v Rusiji, lahko tudi vi. Dovolj izgovorov. Šele ko bodo ženske predstavljale kritično maso v vsakem oddelku vaših podjetij, vključno z gradnjo platform od spodaj navzgor, se bodo pogovori o prioritetah in rešitvah spremenili.
And more love for my friends in tech: profiteering off misogyny in video games must end. I'm so tired of hearing you talk to me at cocktail parties -- like you did a couple weeks ago in Aspen -- about how deplorable #Gamergate was, when you're still making billions of dollars off games that maim and dump women for sport. Basta! -- as the Italians would say. Enough.
Še več ljubezni za prijatelje v tehnologiji: ustvarjanje dobička z mizoginijo v video igrah se mora končati. Sita sem vas poslušati na zabavah, kot ste jo pred nekaj tedni organizirali v Aspnu, ko govorite, kako obžalovanja vredno je gibanje Gamergate, ko pa še vedno služite milijarde dolarjev z igrami, ki za zabavo maličijo in zametujejo ženske. Basta, kot pravijo Italijani. Dovolj.
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Our friends in law enforcement have much to do, because we've seen that online violence is an extension of in-person violence. In our country, more girls and women have been murdered by their intimate partners than died on 9/11 and have died since in Afghanistan and Iraq combined. And it's not cool to say that, but it is true. We care so much geopolitically about what men are doing over there to women over there ... In 2015, 72,828 women used intimate partner violence services in this country. That is not counting the girls and women and boys who needed them. Law enforcement must be empowered with up-to-date internet technology, the devices and an understanding of these platforms -- how they work. The police wanted to be helpful when Amanda Hess called about the death threat she was getting on Twitter, but they couldn't really when they said, "What's Twitter?"
Naši prijatelji na policiji imajo veliko dela, ker smo videli, da je spletno nasilje podaljšek fizičnega medosebnega nasilja. V naši državi več deklet in žen ubijejo njihovi intimni partnerji, kot jih je umrlo 11. septembra in od takrat v Afganistanu in Iraku skupaj. In ni kul, da to rečemo, a je res. Mnogo bolj nas geopolitično skrbi, kaj moški počno tam, kot za ženske tam. Leta 2015 je v tej deželi 72 828 žensk šlo na terapijo za partnersko nasilje. In pri tem ne štejem deklet in žensk in fantov, ki so jih potrebovali. Policija mora dobiti moč s sodobno internetno tehnologijo, napravami in razumevanjem teh platform, kako delajo. Policija je želela pomagati, ko je Amanda Hess poklicala v zvezi z grožnjo s smrtjo, ki jo je dobila na Twitterju, a v resnici niso mogli, ko so rekli: "Kaj je Twitter?"
Our legislators must write and pass astute legislation that reflects today's technology and our notions of free and hate speech. In New York recently, the law could not be applied to a perpetrator because the crimes must have been committed -- even if it was anonymous -- they must have been committed by telephone, in mail, by telegraph --
Naša zakonodajalci morajo napisati in sprejeti bistro zakonodajo, ki je odsev današnje tehnologije in našega pojmovanja svobodnega in sovražnega govora. Nedavno v New Yorku niso mogli sprožiti postopka proti storilcu, ker so zločini morali biti storjeni - tudi če anonimno - morali so biti storjeni po telefonu, pošti, telegrafu ...
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The language must be technologically neutral.
Jezik mora biti tehnološko nevtralen.
So apparently, I've got a pretty bold voice. So, let's talk about our friends ... white men. You have a role to play and a choice to make. You can do something, or you can do nothing. We're cool in this room, but when this goes out, everyone will say, "Oh my God, she's a reverse racist." That quote was said by a white man, Robert Moritz, chairperson, PricewaterhouseCoopers, he asked me to include it in my talk.
Očitno imam precej drzen glas. Spregovorimo še o naših prijateljih, belih moških. Odigrati morate vlogo in morate se odločiti. Nekaj lahko storite ali pa ne storite ničesar. Zdaj je vse OK, tu, v tej sobi, ko pa bo tole šlo ven, bodo vsi rekli: "O moj Bog, obratna rasistka je." Ta citat je prišel od Roberta Moritza, belega moškega, predsednika Pricewaterhouse Coopersa, ki me je prosil, naj ga vključim v svoj govor.
We need to grow support lines and help groups, so victims can help each other when their lives and finances have been derailed. We must as individuals disrupt gender violence as it is happening. 92 percent of young people 29 and under witness it. 72 percent of us have witnessed it. We must have the courage and urgency to practice stopping it as it is unfolding.
Ustvariti moramo podporne linije in skupine za pomoč, da si bodo lahko žrtve med seboj pomagale, ko so njihova življenja in finance uničena. Posamezniki moramo prekiniti nasilje na podlagi spola, ko se zgodi. 92 odstotkov mladih, starih 29 let ali manj, mu je priča. 72 odstokov nas je bilo priča takemu nasilju. Biti moramo pogumni in odločeni prekiniti ga, ko se odvija.
And lastly, believe her. Believe her.
In nazadnje, verjemite ji. Verjemite ji.
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This is fundamentally a problem of human interaction. And as I believe that human interaction is at the core of our healing, trauma not transformed will be trauma transferred.
To je v bistvu problem človeške interakcije. In ker verjamem, da je človeška interakcija srž našega celjenja, bo nespremenjena travma postala naprej prenesena travma.
Edith Wharton said, "The end is latent in the beginning," so we are going to end this talk replacing hate speech with love speech. Because I get lonely in this, but I know that we are allies. I recently learned about how gratitude and affirmations offset negative interactions. It takes five of those to offset one negative interaction, and gratitude in particular -- free, available globally any time, anywhere, to anyone in any dialect -- it fires the pregenual anterior cingulate, a watershed part of the brain that floods it with great, good stuff. So I'm going to say awesome stuff about myself. I would like for you to reflect it back to me. It might sound something like this --
Edith Wharton je rekla: "Konec je na začetku skrit." Zato končajmo ta govor tako, da sovražni govor zamenjamo z ljubeznivim. Osamljena sem v tem, a vem, da smo zavezniki. Nedavno sem se naučila, kako hvaležnost in afirmacije izničijo negativne interakcije. Pet jih je potrebnih, da izničijo eno negativno interakcijo. In hvaležnost še posebej - zastonj, globalno dosegljiva kadar koli, kjer koli, komur koli v katerem koli jeziku - podžge anteriorno cingulatno skorjo, prelomni del možganov, ki ga preplavi s krasnimi, dobrimi stvarmi. Zato bom rekla nekaj krasnega o sebi. Rada bi, da se to od vas odbije nazaj k meni. To izgleda približno takole ...
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I am a powerful and strong woman, and you would say, "Yes, you are."
'Mogočna in močna ženska sem', vi pa recite: Ja, si.
Audience: Yes, you are.
Ja, si.
Ashley Judd: My mama loves me.
Moja mami me ima rada.
A: Yes, she does.
Ja, ima te.
AJ: I did a great job with my talk.
Super govor sem imela.
A: Yes, you did.
Ja, si.
AJ: I have a right to be here.
Pravico imam biti tu.
A: Yes, you do.
Ja, imaš jo.
AJ: I'm really cute.
Res čedna sem.
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A: Yes, you are.
Ja, si.
AJ: God does good work.
Bog dela dobre reči.
A: Yes, He does.
Ja, dela jih.
AJ: And I love you. Thank you so much for letting me be of service.
In rada vas imam. Hvala lepa, da ste mi dovolili, da vam pomagam.
Bless you.
Bodite blagoslovljeni.
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